Should women become working mothers or home makers ? Why?

It is belief that women with children should stay at home and become a home maker. However there is more persuasive argument that they need to go out for work and spend time taking care of the kids and family. Working mothers are the ones who move out of the house for the purpose of earning money and also maintain household chores. The trend of being a housewife is now changing with the change and need of the time. If we compare the condition in the past and nowadays is quite different. Long time ago the cost of living was cheaper than the cost of living at this time, so in the past only husband who held a responsibility to be breadwinner. However, recently the condition is the reverse where mothers also play an essential role in family to earn much money. Working mothers will have a good source of income and be financially independent. They can pay all the expenses by themselve like electricity bill, water bill, … without husband. Women have the opportunity to develop themselves and their social relationships if they go out for work. Sometimes, Women work better and than men and have high salaries. In contrast, there are some demerits of mother working which is giving bad impacts for developing children psychology. Firstly, children and their mothers seem to be less close nowadays. It is because mother spends less time with their children and working mother often works full time. As a result, children do not have enough time to share about their problems in school or about themselves. Secondly, children attempt to get affection, so children are more closely with their nannies of babysitters than their mother. Take one example in the dinner time, most of working mothers cannot serve the healthy meals for their children and family, not only meals but also an attention to keep warm the atmosphere at home. In the other way, youngsters spend more time with friends or surfing the internet to get well-being. It is very true that mothers play an important role in the growth and development of the future generation. So mothers need to speed more for children. To sum up, mother working will create advantages and disadvantages effect which will appear if they cannot divide the balance time between working and bring up their children. Men need to share housework and take care of children with women.