Some people think that children should obey rules and do what their parents and teachers want them to do. Others believe that children controlled very much are not well-prepared for their adult lives. Discuss both views and give your opinion.

Each person’s cognitive ability depends on their living environment and children’s moral parenting even since they are small, therefore the education method has a significant impact on children. While many people argue the district discipline is an accurate way to form the behavior pattern for youngsters, there is a thought that letting them develop in a freedom without rule is really suitable. From my perspective, I think both opinions contain the advantageous side for kids. On the one hand, the rules imposed at school or at home can help the children perfect themselves in a right pattern. The kids who do not have the awareness of the right or wrong actions need direction and proper punishment from parents or teachers to realize their mistakes. The rule forbids the kids from continuing many bad activities such as cheating the exam, throwing rubbish on the road. For instance, when a youngster messes a room with toys, parents request them to tidy it or they are not allowed to play more, consequently they will recognise that they must not do this wrong action again. By contrast, children who grow up with strict norms can be limited in their capacities and creativity. If a baby boy or girl always obeys the voice of parents and teachers, they will extremely rely on the help and can not be independent when living alone. They may not know time-consuming, self-problem solving or basically, when facing a new environment with new culture and rule, they will be nervous and can not adapt easily. To illustrate, a student who is similar to the available key from the teacher will not complete by themselves a unique exam format. In conclusion, I think the orientation and rules from all factors such as family or teacher can bring a youngster the right way to grow. Besides, letting them develop through their self-exploring also can help them to become an independent person. Therefore, it is a combination of two methods that we should give for raising children.