mysterious and obvious people

Lots of people say you shouldn't show anything about yourself and don't always be clear. For me, I do not agree with them, because I think that this method will bring harm to them. The first aspect is speech. They say you should not talk too much, shorten your words, and not mention any details because this attracts the attention and curiosity of others. I think that on the contrary, if the person mentions the details, he will attract me to his talk and all my senses will be captivated to listen to him. For example, if you are telling a situation that happened to you and you want to attract people, you will not attract them if you say the situation briefly, but if you say it in detail in an interesting way, they will listen to you. When you are clear in your speech, this makes others see you as confident in yourself and this is important to make others trust your abilities as well. On the other hand, people with low speech appear to be unsure of themselves, and difficult to understand and deal with. The other side is the dress. Does a person attract you by the clothes that cover him so that you can hardly see him? This is what some people think. A person who does not show anything repels people from talking to him, and they may not even notice his presence. Obvious people wear clothes that express themselves and show their thoughts and feelings, and this is what attracts others to talk to them or accompany them. Whether you like long or short black or white dress, wear what suits your personality and then you will give an idea to others about you. Some may think that clothes are not that important, but believe me, it is the first thing that others notice when they see you. In the end, I don't mean people who are low-key and don't like to show themselves to others, I mean those who deliberately do this. You do not have to change your personality for the sake of others. Be who you want and not be what they want.